Thursday, December 11, 2008

Missionary Story from Kimberly

Sorry, but I haven't gotten back to update the blog with the rest of the pictures, but transfers, zone conferences, and Christmas is coming! I'll get to it later, but in the meantime, this was a sweet story we received in Kimberly's email that we wanted to share.

So we had to go to Milan yesterday for Zone Conference. And not like us sister missionaries are always on time getting ready in the morning:), but it's exceptionally tricky when you have three sisters, one shower, and one mirror. Anyway, what I'm getting at is that we missed the bus that would get us to the train station on time. There was another one that would pass soon, but it would be cutting it tight. So I started praying and made a deal with Heavenly Father that if He would make the train late, I would promise to talk to whoever I was sitting next to on the train. (This is harder than you might think because I would have to talk for about 45 minutes straight in Italian and try to keep it going toward spiritual topics, get an invite, but leave time so that it wasn't awkward when we still had 20 minutes to sit by each other if I didn't plan it right. Oh ya, and did I mention how my Italian is still not perfect and I don't usually have much to say?) Anyway, just like always, Heavenly Father kept his part of the deal. The other bus came, the train was late, (it was snowing like crazy), and we made it. We got on with all of our stuff (we have to bring small rolling suitcases to bring back our orders of Books of Mormon and such) and I realized that I was sitting by the window with one companion on one side of me and the other sitting on the other aisle seat facing us. This meant that no one would be coming to sit by us because they couldn't. I got a little worried because you don't want to make a deal with God and not keep your part right?:) Luckily, the next stop we picked up a TON of people which meant we had to cram. Really, people in the aisle and everything. This really nice, about 26-year-old, beautiful, natural, Italian woman came and sat by us. She was stylish as most Italians are, and I realized that this was my chance. I waited a bit and kept reading my scriptures while I noticed her staring at me and reading my tag. I looked up and said hello and started the conversation. (People are always so curious and if you let them read your tag, then you can get eye contact and then they're stuck!) Anyway, long story short, it was great. My companions jumped in and helped me and towards the end, she was asking us for our number, we gave her a Restoration pamphlet, and got her number. Sad news is that she works like crazy at this really high-priced store all day everyday because of the Christmas season, but she asked us to come and find her after the holidays. She was so persistent—she really wanted to make sure that we would. Towards the end, she kept looking at me and finally said something like, "You look so familiar and it just feels like we've seen each other before." She said this about 2-3 times and the spirit just rushed in. I felt the confirmation that yes, we really had seen each other before and yes, this was something special. I'm sure she felt it too and we both got a little teary eyed as we said good bye.

Once again, just one of those tender mercies of Heavenly Father reminding me that I am in the right place, at the right time. And if I continue to show Him that I am going to all that I can to be the best missionary I can be, He will trust and help me find those who are ready and sometimes, someone who I knew before this life! The gospel is true and this is the most important work in the world!

Saturday, November 29, 2008

Pictures, pictures, pictures!

When I have time to write, it's hard for me to decide which stories to share--there are hundreds fighting to get out. So, I thought I'd share some pictures of what goes on here because a picture is worth a thousand words, right?
(Just a reminder: you can click on any of these pictures to see them in full size and even download them in case you recognize someone! Click the Back button to get back to the blog.)

Transfers
Here are some of our assistants (one staying, one leaving, and one new one) and departing missionaries. We always have a hard time saying goodbye. Mission accomplished! Well done.

The day before they leave, they come in for their departing interview and testimony meeting. Then we always send them off with a traditional dinner of lasagna and chocolate tiramisu. The missionaries always offer to help. Here is Elder Ethington helping me show off our finished lasagnas.

I always like to see "how it's done" and everyone has their own tips to share. I knew Elder Ethington was an expert because he and his companions in Castellammare made us lasagna for lunch once during interviews a year ago! Here are a couple of pictures from that yummy lunch complete with a decorated table and pink yogurt-frosted cake.

Very early the next morning, we take the departing missionaries to the airport. It's always hard to say good-bye, but I know that there are very happy parents and brothers and sisters anxiously waiting for them to come home. That, and the fact that we know we'll see them again after the mission, makes it just a little easier.

We're always excited to meet our new missionaries. They come in that same afternoon. If they get in on time and there are no complications (like lost luggage), we take them to see something of Rome. First stop, pizza!


Then, a visit to the beautiful St. Paul's Basilica where, among other things, is a carved slab of marble that says (in Latin) "Exaltata ad est Celestia Regna," which means, "Exaltation is the Celestial Kingdom."

We drive past the colosseum on our way home, have another lasagna and tiramisu dinner, President Acerson gives each one an interview, then we put very sleepy missionaries to bed.

The next day, after several hours of training and a visit to the temple site where they can dedicate themselves to the work here in Italy, we have lunch with the trainers. This is the standard lunch for transfers and other conferences: turkey and salami sandwiches, pasta salad or Tuscan tomato soup (depending on the weather), veggies, fruit, chips, and chocolate chip cookies.

Here are some of the trainers and new missionaries just before they are matched up with their new companions. They are all so happy and nervous and excited all at once!

Here are a couple of new missionaries finding out who their trainers are. As you can tell, this is the most exciting part of transfers!

Afterward, they grab their things and they're off to their cities! Buon viaggio! (Good travel!).

District Conference
District Conferences are like stake conference only a bit smaller. Within our mission boundares are one stake (the Rome Stake) and three districts (Napoli/Naples, Firenze/Florence, and Sardegna-the island). President Acerson presides over the districts. Every spring and fall we travel to the three districts for their conferences. This fall, we had a general authority and his wife visiting each of the districts! On Saturday, we have auxiliary training meetings, priesthood leadership meetings, sometimes a women's meeting, and an evening meeting for adults (but a lot of children come as well, as Italians in general don't like to leave their children with anyone). On Sunday, there is the typical two-hour meeting from 10:00-12:00. In between all of this, President does temple recommend interviews and sometimes interviews new missionaries.

Because the people in Sardegna travel so far (some drive 3 hours or take a train or bus which is even longer!), many of the members in Cagliari (Cai-yar-ee) open their homes for overnight guests and then provide a yummy lunch after the Sunday session. Here are some pictures that were taken during our time in Cagliari, Sardegna after district meetings there.

The next picture is of a new member who loves to bring his friends to church, a long-time member, and two outstanding missionaries. Elder Loritz on the right is a branch president in Oristano, was born to a German father, an Italian mother, lived in England, and took French as his "second" language in school. That means he speaks four languages! Elder Middleton is one of the happiest and most helpful missionaries--but even that's hard to say because they are all happy and helpful! His family in Utah welcomed a member and her non-member husband into their home for 10 days and, with the help of my sister, Ellen, my parents in Moab, and some of our returned missionaries, showed them most everything that can be seen in Utah -- including Temple Square, snow in the mountains, and the Arches!

Here are pictures of the district president, President Sanna and his wife and some of the food they are serving!

Here are some pictures of some of the members in the District of Sardegna. The first one is of a man who loves the missionaries and who loves to cook. A good combination!

Once, we ate just a little at the church and then went to the Mura's home for a little (lot!) more. They are the parents and grandparents of one of our missionaries and they love to treat us well. (Be sure to click on this picture! The grandparents are so cute!)

Of course we also have a great time in Firenze and Napoli where we meet in a hotel convention-type hall. Here are some pictures of members and missionaries after the most recent district meeting in Firenze. (Note that everytime we see missionaries, even if it's at a district conference, we bring mail and packages. President always says, jokingly, that his job is just a glorified mailman! They're always very happy to see us!)

I wanted to show you pictures of a wonderful young man who joined the church about six months ago. The first picture was taken at our youth conference this summer just after he had been baptized. He bore a powerful testimony at our testimony meeting on the temple grounds. The second one was taken after district conference with Elder Auna from Hawaii, one of the missionaries who taught him. He told us he's now preparing to serve a mission. Just goes to show you what spending time with a bunch of missionaries might do!

President's counselor in the mission presidency is President Ogunleye from Prato (originally from Nigeria and married to a beautiful and sweet Italian). They have two beautiful children. Luca, on the right, just returned from his mission to England earlier this year and is now dating a young woman from the states, also pictured here with the Ogunleye family. You should hear the talks President Ogunleye gives! They are marvelous. I could listen to him the whole meeting. I can even understand his Italian!

Here are some pictures taken in Napoli. The first one is of our missionaries and President and Sister Oaks after zone conference. This is taken on the balcony just outside the chapel overlooking the beautiful Bay of Napoli (unfortunately, it was cloudy that day). The second picture is of President Acerson and Sister Oaks greeting people after zone conference (they had come for interviews). The third is the Parisi family who fed us a delicious dinner Saturday night. They used to serve in the church with President and Sister Oaks in Napoli when they lived there 30 years before! They have been stalwart members, even holding church in their home just months after they were baptized!

There is a Naval Support Site (military base) where military and civilians are stationed and they attend two different branches. Headsets providing translation are passed back and forth between English and Italian speakers throughout their meetings with missionaries translating talks and lessons for them!

Now that you've had a glimpse into what happens during transfers and district conferences here, I hope you have been able to see how wonderful the people are. Because it's all about the people--the members, the investigators, and the missionaries. We love each and every one of them and treasure our time with them.

Tomorrow I will post Part II of Pictures, pictures, pictures!

Sunday, November 23, 2008

Busy, busy!

Disclaimer: As you read this post, please know that I am not trying to make anyone feel sorry for us or make you think you need to get on a plane to help us out! We are having a great time and I just want to let you know a little of what we've been doing lately and why you haven't heard from us!

So it's been a bit busy around here over the past couple of months. We have had several conferences (district conferences in Sardegna, Firenze, and Napoli, two 3-Month Conferences and a Zone Leader Council here at home, and Zone Conferences around the mission) plus transfers where ten new, outstanding missionaries were sent to us. (With the training they are getting from some of our former outstanding missionaries in the MTC, they can't help but be amazing!)

Among other things, the very sweet woman, Christina, who helps with floors, bathrooms, and laundry was out for over two months for health reasons, the power went out for several hours one evening/night while we were gone (causing the kids to be a bit nervous to say the least), the internet was knocked out because of it and hasn't come back, the front gate stopped working, the heat wouldn't come on, and we had our area president (a retired Four-Star General) who presides over 48 countries in Europe, his amazing wife, and one of his counselors coming for a Mission Tour!

And that's why you haven't heard from us lately. The only reason I took the time to post about Lisa's mission call was so that she wouldn't think we weren't excited about it.

But with prayer and less-than-normal sleep, we did it. The mission tour was absolutely wonderful with Elder and Sister Robert C. Oaks and Elder Causse. (This was taken during a visit to the temple grounds.)

We couldn't ask for better leaders and motivators. I wish I could have had a tape recorder so that I could catch all the wonderful stories as we drove and flew from place to place over 5 1/2 days.

Here's just a taste of what kind of people President and Sister Oaks are (not listed in chronological order): they lived in Napoli for two years while he was commander of NATO Allied Air Forces in Europe (also serving in the church as a counselor in the district presidency at the time), and later became commander of the United States Air Force in Europe. He served as area president in South Africa, flew planes in 188 missions over Vietnam, was shot down and rescued, they have moved 32 times, he earned his MBA from Ohio State University, raised six children (all four sons serve or have served in the military), was senior vice president over operations at US Airways, and both have an incredible memory of people, places, and dates of events in their lives. And the stories they told! They were incredibly inspiring, uplifting, and humorous. We hated to see them go. Our missionaries will long remember their training, stories, and testimony of Jesus Christ and the restored gospel.

Elder Causse, one of Elder Oaks' counselors in the area presidency came with him for the first three days. Before serving in his current calling, he served as the stake president in Paris, France and is one of the sweetest men you'll ever meet. Happy, smiling, and calm. His call as a seventy will be a 25-year call. Imagine! We loved his trainings as well and look forward to meeting his wife.

The good news is Christina is back, the power is working fine, and the heat is on. Now that we're actually going to be home long enough for a repairman to come, we might even get our front gate and internet working (with the internet being TOP priority as the kids are missing emailing their friends back home and not being able to do their homework very well without it!)

Now, days later
We are back in business! Two internet repairmen and a new DSL router and wireless router later, we're back online! We had been going into the office occasionally late at night so the kids could use the internet there and that's where I wrote the previous paragraphs. So not only do I have the internet up and running at home, I will be working on projects for the next couple of weeks while President is off doing interviews, so hopefully you'll hear more over the next little while!

Friday, November 7, 2008

Lisa's going on a Mission!

About a year ago, Elder Richard G. Scott came to our mission and spoke with the missionaries. Our children skipped school that day so they could come and listen. It was such a blessing to have him here.

At that time, our 18-year-old daughter, Lisa, had put her schooling and scholarship at BYU on hold because President Faust had encouraged us to take her with us. She was here as a service missionary, volunteering at the children's school three days a week, helping the children with homework, and helping me run the mission home. (We sure miss her this year!) When Elder Scott spoke, Lisa had some very strong feelings that she was to go on a mission. While she wasn't sure what the next year would bring, she started studying her scriptures and "Preach My Gospel" with new eyes as she prepared herself to be a missionary. As in any young person's life, there are many things to take into consideration when making a decision to take 18 months out of your life and serve the Lord and Lisa was no different, wrestling with the decision as to whether she should go or not. She met with her bishop to ask for help and advice and he said, "If you decide to go, just make sure you really want to go."

Lisa fasted and prayed about this decision and had some special experiences in which she had confirmation that she should serve a full-time mission. Within a week, her papers were in and she received her call two weeks later. Even though she had spent 10 months here, learned a bit of Italian, was in an accelerated Italian class, had a sister serving in the Italy Milan Mission, and parents and siblings in Rome, Lisa was called to serve in the Japan Tokyo Mission!

We were all surprised, but very excited. She realizes that if she was called to that mission with everyone expecting her to serve somewhere in Italy, she was really needed there. I told her that she is so smart that Heavenly Father knew she could learn the language and that she will touch people's lives there in a way that no one else can. She is such a sweet and caring personality and loves tradition and we think the people of Japan will love her as much as she will grow to love them.

Lisa leaves for the Missionary Training Center on February 11th where she will spend two months learning the language and how to preach the gospel. She will then leave for the Japan Tokyo Mission. We're so excited for her as she walks with faith into the great unknown and helps bring others to Christ.


Here are some pictures my sister Ellen took as she opened her mission call amidst family and friends. We were watching over the webcam and Scott was on the phone from Aviano where he was playing in a volleyball tournament.









Friday, October 17, 2008

Sunday at the Temple Site

Last Sunday was our Fast and Testimony meeting at church. (For those who don't know what this is, on the first Sunday of the month, we don't eat or drink for two meals. We feel that this makes us more sensitive to the spirit and helps us draw closer to God. In addition, we take the money normally spent on those meals and donate it to the church as a "fast offering" which is then passed on to the needy through various programs in the church. At sacrament meeting, the members take turns going to the pulpit to express their feelings about Jesus Christ and the restored gospel.) Of course many talked about the temple which had just been announced the previous Sunday. Here are a few that I remember:

"I don't know if I'll ever get there, but I'm so happy for those who will." (From an elderly woman who is not sure if she'll still be around by the time the temple is finished, but who is still pretty spunky!)

"I am grateful to have a house of the Lord coming, but I have always felt like I have a home--and a family--with the members here in Rome."

"God lives and answers prayers. I'm grateful he listens. . . . . He's a light in us when we walk in dark paths."

"This (the announcement of the temple) is not the end. We must keep working. We must be full of energy, happiness, and joy. Before it was sufficient to be a good example of followers of Christ. Now we need more commitment. President Monson was inspired to announce the temple here in Rome. Now we must give the part that God requires of us."

"I'm grateful to receive my testimony through prayer."

"I have seen miracles in people's life because and through the gospel of Jesus Christ."

We were so grateful to have been there at that special sacrament meeting. We're sure there were many just like them around Italy.

After sacrament meeeting, we had a bit of time before we would finish fasting, so we decided to go to the temple site. We bring all our new missionaries here between training meetings and lunch so that they can have some time to pray and dedicate themselves to the work here in Italy but the kids hadn't had a chance to wander around the property. (They were in Utah during the youth conference this summer.) The Calabreses (he's our stake patriarch and man-of-all-trades in the mission office, she is perhaps the most beautiful woman in all of Italy) and our friend, Artan, wanted to come along as well. (Remember that you can click on any picture to view it at full size.)


Many have wanted to see pictures of the property. Here are a couple from the front. First, there is a shot on the left side of the property. Next, there is the long driveway to a small villa where the missionaries used to live. The next two shots are to the right of the entrance. The tall trees are called Roman (or umbrella) pines. The smaller trees are olive trees.





Here are some more pictures of the olive grove. Brother Calabrese told us that three years ago, there was a fire on the property and it scorched the Roman pines to the left of the grove, but it came to a line near the olive trees, but would not cross the line. The trees were not harmed at all in the fire.






Marianne wanted a little olive branch and Sister Calabrese pointed out that she might want a branch from the laurel bush as well. The laurel bush is the source of bay leaves used for flavoring soups, lentils, and stews. She said you can also boil the leaves and drink the water (like a tea) for an upset stomach, that the Italians use it to make a crown of leaves for someone who is graduating (the word "laurel" helps form the word "baccalaureate"), and that it was used in ancient Greece for the winner of athletic games (the term "resting on your laurels" comes from this). Wikipedia says that, "In the Bible, the sweet-bay is often an emblem of prosperity and fame. In Christianity it is said to symbolize the Resurrection of Christ and the triumph of Humanity thereby." Interesting!


See what I mean about Sister Calabrese being the most beautiful woman in Italy? And she's just as sweet as she is beautiful!


She told me that when she first visited the property years ago, that there were a lot of vases and pots filled with oil, vinegar, marmalade and such in the villetta and other buildings on the property. She said there was a good feeling about the place and she knew that there must have been a good woman who lived there who knew how to make the land productive and preserve the bounty that came from the harvest.

This is a picture of the back of the villetta. President Acerson is away from the group on the phone--most likely with a missionary. He takes a lot of calls, but he loves it and never complains.


It was a beautiful day and we're glad that we had the opportunity to visit it and make some memories before demolition and construction begin (and no, we don't know when that will be).






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